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1.Q..Do we have to have sex with someone when we go to the club?
1.A..No you are not expected to have sex with anyone at the club that's what is nice about Aphrodite there is
nopressure to do anything with anyone nor are you expected to participate in Games played while there You will find this
to be true with most or all of the clubs in the area.
2.Q.. Do we have to bring and change clothes after we get there?
2.A.. No you do not have to participate in changing of clothes this is for couples that feel comfortable in the idea of
changing or that bring cloths for a specific theme party at the club.
3.Q..Can we leave if we don't like it?
3.A..You are free to leave the club anytime you wish.
4.Q..What about safe sex? Should we bring condoms?
4.A..It is your personal choice and between you and your mate whether you use condoms or not. This is a Question you need
to ask of the people that you are planning to be with. You are more than welcome to bring your own condoms.
5.Q..How do we ask or let someone know we are interested?
5.A..By talking to the people that you are interested in introduce yourselves and tell them that you are interested/ attracted
, If you are uncomfortable in asking or meeting people there are Hosts at the club that will introduce you to them then its
up to you to make your interests known.
6.Q..Is there just people having sex all over the place?
6.Q..No,On rare occasions you may see someone have sex in the social area but for
the most part it is conducted in private
7.Q..Do we bring coolers or what? A overnight bag?
7.A..If you plan on bringing drinks it is common for people to bring in a cooler. There is a refrigerator for drinks as
well just mark your drinks and no one will bother them . Overnight bags are optional, people do bring in a bag with cloths
for the party's Theme or clothing they feel more comfortable wearing during the party.
8.Q..What do most people wear?
8.A.. People coming to the party usually wear casual comfortable clothing depends on the theme if you want to dress for
it or bring a change of clothes for it. You don't have to change at all if you don't want to.
9.Q..How do we let a couple know we aren't interested with out hurting their feelings?
9.A.. Well there are a few ways but we have found..."We are involved with another couple right now" and "We
haven't decided what we are going to do yet" work the best and they don't make it too personal.
10.Q..Does the club allow interracial couples?
10.A.. Absolutely all races/colors/ages/etc...
11.Q..What is the age range of the people that go?
11.A..All ages. The common range is 21-50+
12.Q..What age do you have to be to go?
12.A..21
13.Q..Do they allow singles?
13.A..yes but only a limited number of single people
14.Q..Are there hotels close?
14.A..There are nice hotels in town just ask the owner when you make reservations
15.Q..What about personal safety? If someone wont take no for an answer?
15.A..In the lifestyle, while at any club in the area NO means NO Its a common respect between persons at the clubs. If
you have limits they are respected between the people you are with. When you meet couples you need to find out where their
and your limits are and discuss them first.
16.Q..Will our belongings be ok if we play in the back?
16.A..Yes your belongings will not be bothered while you are enjoying your time at the party
17.Q..Can we be with more than one couple in a night?
17.A..You can be with as many people as you want.
18.Q..Do we have to party as a couple?
18.A..No that is totally up to you and your partner and the persons that you are wanting to party with.
19.Q..How do you start out in the Lifestyle?
19.A..The best advice we can give is to search around, browse the ads on the net look for a couple that you might be interested
in and send them an E-Mail get to know them and what they like etc. Discuss the things that you both are looking for and eventually
setup a meeting with them whether at a club (our suggestion) or at a specified location.
20.Q..Why meet at a party and not at a specified location?
20.A..Meeting a couple at a specified location is ok but with some couples it gives them a feeling of having to do something
when you all meet. Whether this is true or not its going to be there. With the parties you have more of a freedom and less
anxiety when meeting a couple for the first time. Also you can meet more couples that are involved in the lifestyle that might
be looking for the same things that you are.
21.Q..Whats the best way to get to know a couple?
21.A..We suggest using a chat program to talk to them on first, until you are comfortable enough to trade pictures, meet
or chat on the phone with them. With most couples it is a safe way of getting to know each other without leaving yourself
open for any unwanted problems.
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